Win Back Your Husband

If your marriage is over, or failing fast, and you want to know the best way to win back your husband I may be able to help.  Of course, every relationship is unique and so are the problems they face, but there do tend to be some common things that have helped a lot of people and may be able to help you too.

1. Don't be desperate.  Stop calling him and crying all the time.  That just makes you seem needy and lets him think he's better off without all the drama.  Instead wait a week or so.  Use that time as a chance to get your feet back under you so that when the two of you do talk you can say your peace without being angry and upset.

2. Try to figure out what the problem with the relationship was, more than likely you both share in the blame.  Take ownership of the part you played and try to change the behavior that you don't like and that caused some of the problems.

3. After a week or two has gone by, and he's had plenty of time to miss you, and you've had plenty of time to take a hard look at yourself, call him and invite him to meet. More than likely he'll say yes.

When the two of you meet it's important to stop the accusing wasteful ways you used to communicate and start really talking, and listening, to each other.  Try to calmly explain that you realize you made some mistakes and you're willing to work on fixing them.  If he still cares about you, he'll likely admit he made some mistakes too, and once you've gotten to that point, you'll have a real shot at a reconciliation.

One of the best things you can do if you want to win back your husband is to be yourself, the woman he fell in love with in the beginning.  Don't be a clingy, needy, or angry woman,  instead be a strong, competent, smart woman. Let him see what he's been missing.  If both of you are willing to work together to make things better you can not only save your marriage, but improve it as well.